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There’s always this bad, bad, BAD phase in your life when everything gets fogged up, you feel lost, you feel the need to talk to someone but you feel so blank that you don’t even know what to tell them.

I’m here to tell you that I’m here with you and you have to breathe and you have to get up from the mess that life has thrown at you.

In times like this, I often wonder what I would want/like to hear. Somehow, I’ve never figured that out. It has always been a gamble — anything could work. …

Sometimes, you need hugs to make you feel better. But there are times when you have absolutely no clue as to what would make you feel better, and you just sit there, waiting. Waiting for something to come up, for something to magically appear and help your mind get out of the mess it’s in.

And that thing never arrives and you end up becoming this anxious, frustrated individual, trying everything to help you become stable.

My mind, lately, has been in a mess and I really don’t know why. All I can gather from this state is that there…

Let’s just start with “hey!”

I should probably learn to organise myself. It’s funny how I love to organise things for others, but I can’t do that for myself. Ah well such is life!

How have my readers been! It’s been a while. I have been involved in many many activities that have successfully drained me out and now I’m working on a bit of leftover fuel. And going on a vacation hasn’t been of much help.

It’s this thing where, you think escaping might help you get some time to get settled, or escaping might cool off the situation…

This blog feels like home to me now. And this blog post, will address something similar to that.

First off, I GRADUATED OH MY GOODNESS I JUST, nah man I still haven’t come to terms with it. But you know what they say- let your mind take its own sweet time to absorb things. Of course, you might lag behind a bit, but haste has NEVER given good results. Trust me.
So I’m going to let my mind take its time. Let it take in every aspect of this milestone. Let it linger in some places, and brush past the…


I tend to ponder and reflect a lot, but I can hardly talk. This blog is a result of my life reflections.

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